A common complaint I hear from my clients is that their romantic partner doesn’t treat them the way they’d like to be treated. See, the problem is often not in the behaviors, but in the way, they rate and prioritize you in their mind depending on ...

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Often times, we go along with our assumptions about our current or prospective romantic partner, and their values and expectations from us and from the relationship. As far as I know, assumptions do not often lead to happy endings…. Effective communication of our wants, needs and ...

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If you’re asking yourself whether this new relationship is going where you want it to go, reading through these 7 red flags could help you decide whether to continue to hope on or cut your losses and move on … The truth is that the signs ...

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1. Communicate clearly2. Differentiate between you and me.3. Adopt patience and persistence.4. Seek to discover the ultimate life goals you share.5. Become the challenger and the cheerleader.6. Nurture yourself.7. Take responsibility. ...

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Sometimes we get upset when “others” in our life do not say or do what we expect them to. Then, we often judge those “others,” using our own values and habits and say: “I wouldn’t have done or said that, if I were her/him.” Well, the ...

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Recently, I see many of these TV commercials for DNA testing to discover your genetic heritage… I don’t think that there is anything wrong with wanting to know more about your generational history; I believe the problem starts when those commercials are making it about “knowing ...

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